You’re doing yourself a disservice dumbing yourself down for someone else. There is no

reason why you should be diluting your greatness and all that you are in the hope that

you will be able to attract and keep somebody. If that person can’t simply understand

and take you for who you are then they probably not cut out for that role of being your

partner. It’s not your job to change yourself to try to force the possibility of something

happening or increase the sustainability of something lasting that is obviously dying and

hanging on a loose thread.


Stand firm in your greatness and all that you are. Stand by what you believe and stand

for. If you have to be alone during the process, there is nothing wrong with that.  Learn

to enjoy the journey.
Take the time to discover and learn about yourself, grow and heal in the respective areas

that need your attention, master the skills you need to elevate ultimately develop

yourself. Have your own party. Build your own house and enjoy it before going and

dragging yourself through the mud when you don’t even need to just for companionship.




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