You’re doing yourself a disservice dumbing yourself down for someone else. There is no reason why you should be diluting your greatness and all that you are in the hope that you will be able to attract and keep somebody. If that person can’t simply understand and take you for who you are then … Continue reading Insight
Category: Reflections
Insight
It is impossible to fail at something you were meant to do. You only fail if you never try, never refining the quality of your gift(s) and talent(s). You only fail if you never go for new opportunities, are never inconsistent and refuse to keep an open mind. As long as you continue working on … Continue reading Insight
Stay Encouraged
No matter the circumstances or who you might end up being involved with: -your worth -your value -your brilliance -your beauty and your spunk (all that you are comprised of) that which sets you apart will never falter. Nor will they ever diminish either on account of another, their perception of you or their attitude … Continue reading Stay Encouraged
My take on Newness
There is a sense of distinct beauty and transformation that lies within the process of starting over no matter how many times you've done it or rather simply beginning a new journey. After having started over at many different schools with this current one being my third the process of adjustment is both distinct and … Continue reading My take on Newness
How you viewing life
I'm realizing that perhaps we should begin to treasure more and treat each and everyday with reverence. Every morning we wake up and take a breath it's another opportunity, another chance to start over. Being able to wake up again I believe is a sign that God is giving us mercy and letting us know … Continue reading How you viewing life
On Change
Life lessons only become painful when you resist the change. You know the change is necessary. Instead of making that necessary change you avoid it, distract yourself from it or act like it doesn't exist. It never turns out sweet and easy in the end like you were hoping for. Pay attention to the signs. … Continue reading On Change
The Unfair Reality
I hate that as young girls and young women grow and mature we're brainwashed into this ideal that we have to always put ourselves last, that caring for ourselves FIRST is an issue, that a marriage somehow provides us with our sense of worth and purpose in life, that we must cater to men in … Continue reading The Unfair Reality
Conversations with myself
There's nothing like waiting on the sidelines watching others live: going through different things, accomplishing goals, moving on and prospering , making the necessary changes in their lives. There's nothing like waiting on the sidelines. Being all talk but no action. Running your mouth every chance you get. Afraid to make the first move. It's … Continue reading Conversations with myself
Evolution
It's beautiful to watch the evolution of things. I think once you are able to witness it you take away something special from that process. Being able to be a spectator to the deveopment: how something may have started and survived. This also includes many ebbs and flows and hopefully having maintained its natural essence to … Continue reading Evolution
Lately
I've been trying to make sense of my last two to three years in school. I've been constantly questioning my beliefs, my actions,my relationships etc. I've been getting more clarity with regards to what I feel my purpose is and how I should carry it out-this had been both scary, freeing, and exhilarating at the … Continue reading Lately
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